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How Can We Create More Commitment And Attitude In Our Children?

It is the duty of adults who take time to make sure that their children never become a burden. Parents who do not invest love and attention in their children take away the foundation of their child’s success, happiness and wellbeing.

Children do not want to be a burden. It is not how they view their childhood, but on the contrary, they look upon their own childhood with great expectation. They want to have their own happy childhood – and this is where parents can help them do this. Parents who do not invest love and attention in their children take away the foundation of their child’s success, happiness and wellbeing.

Parents often say that their child does not seem like herself, but sometimes they do not remember their own childhood. Often, parents do not remember the happiness and excitement of their own childhood, because they only remember that one time when their children said ‘no’, but they forget who said what, when and how. And most importantly, the child remembers only one time when they said, ‘no’. When parents do not remember their own childhood, which is the most important part of their life, they can not teach their children the basics. They do not teach their children how to love themselves or how to love others. They do not teach them how to be honest, strong, caring, kind, respectful, responsible and a good person.

Children need to know how to love themselves, love others and to value themselves, because they cannot value others or make up for the damage done to them by others or themselves. Their life will be a continuous source of tears in the form of hate for others, for themselves, for themselves, for each other, for their families, friends, schoolmates, teachers, etc.

To teach children the basics means to give up the responsibility from them. Parents are constantly teaching their children how to do things, but they themselves do not really know how to do things. They cannot make up for the damage done by others or by themselves. Children do not learn how to value themselves and how to love themselves because, on top of that, they do not remember how to love themselves or they cannot love themselves, because they do not understand that what they are doing to themselves is harming them.

How can parents help their children to improve the quality of their own lives? They take time to teach them how to love themselves, how to love others and how to value themselves, but how can they give up the responsibility from their children? Parents who do not take time to make sure that their children never become a burden are, in fact, giving their children the responsibility to become a burden on themselves as well, so that they take up the same burden themselves.

How can parents help their children to develop a sense of self worth and personal worth? The child does not know what is important to him or her. How much is a glass of water? How much is a family? How much is being alive? How much is the future? How much is a relationship? How much is a job? How important must it be?

The problem of self worth and personal worth cannot be understood by one person alone. As a human being, the child has to be taught that what he needs to get a sense of self worth is to be honest, caring and kind to others. As this child learns the basics of being kind, to be honest, to be good to others is the best thing he or she can do to get a feeling of self worth. But if this is the only thing he or she learns, it is a long and very tedious process.