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How To Create Positive Body Language When Trying To Make Someone See You In A New Light

In a series of experiments, researchers found that people use negative body language when talking to others, and use positive body language when making new friends.

When one is talking about positive body language, negative body language is never the best choice. There are reasons why. Positive language creates a safe, positive environment that people who have low self-esteem can relate to. Negative language, on the other hand, creates a very different environment. Everyone will see it, and what you actually say there will affect how you are viewed. If you want to change how people see you, you have to have a positive language choice and you only have two choices: make yourself a new creature, or become a new creature. If you choose the former, all of the negative things that happened in the past will still stick in your psyche and make it difficult to build a more positive bond. On the other hand, if you choose the latter, you’ll build this bond and begin to see yourself as being something special.

Example: The research showed that women using neutral body language were perceived as less attractive than those who used positive body language – which caused men to take off more weight. Women who use positive body language and have a little more body awareness will be seen as both attractive and strong. Men will see women who use both positive and negative body language, and it will be much harder for them to take off a little weight from the girl…

When you use the word “strong”, you open yourself up to the possibility of being perceived as strong and you are able to use language that you are familiar with. If you use neutral language, you are not using a term that has a universal meaning. And since that term does not exist yet for you, you will have to be creative and invent new words to use.

The more language you use, the more you are able to express yourself through the neutral terms. It is a process of self-expression.

The key words in that sentence are body awareness , and make yourself a new creature . This phrase refers to the process of self-confidence.

Here is the body language technique in action:

How to be confident and self-assertive without looking like a total loser

I started reading the list of words you mentioned that are used to create positive body language. Many of them were very interesting and I wondered to myself how they did it. I realized there was no “body language trick” and therefore I decided to write out a list of the ways you can look great in the mirror without using “body language tricks”. I hope you will find it useful.

1. Breathe and relax: If you are not breathing or you are going to be tense, there is nothing worse than looking unconfident. Relax your shoulders, neck, back, and your arms. It is not a bad idea to let your hands rest on your waist. If you are using an electrical outlet instead of a fan, try using the air coming from your breath, for a few seconds, before going into a conversation. Breathe deeply into your belly. 2. Keep your eyes out. If you are staring at someone in the mirror or staring away from your own reflection, your posture could be off because of that. The best way to see yourself from above would be to look up when saying good morning, as this will let you get a better perspective. 3. Use your body for attention. This includes saying hello and getting a thumbs up. When looking at yourself in the mirror, you can look at yourself in the eyes. If someone is telling you something, give them a thumbs up, which sends a signal for them to look at you with interest. 4. When walking, keep your posture straight and your head down. It’s not a bad idea to raise it a little bit when you walk. If you look like you are walking into traffic, you will be seen as being unsafe and this will make you appear less confident. 5. Stop using your hands for anything. There are times when you can use your hands, such as when you are putting away food, but for the most part, avoid using your hands. Instead, try using your fingers to touch your nose, the bridge of your nose, and your ears. Look in the mirror and touch yourself to see if it is uncomfortable. The last part involves making conversation. When you are talking to someone, look at them and put your arms out in front of you. It sends a signal. 6. Be attentive or attentive-looking or attentive-feeling.