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How To Deal With The Fierce Fury In Your Heart

People are going to make mistakes and things will go wrong in your life. So why should you waste your time worrying about all these details? We are here to say that as humans we are simply going to have to accept the reality of the imperfections that we all carry. They are a part of who you are and when they go wrong, it is ok to have these challenges without feeling the need to blame God, God, God, or some abstract entity.

People are going to make mistakes and things will go wrong in your life. So why should you waste your time worrying about all these details? We are here to say that as humans we are simply going to have to accept the reality of the imperfections that we all carry. We are here to say that as long as we learn to accept our imperfections we are going to be fine. We are here to say that we are human, and that all of us carry our imperfections, but as long as we learn to accept these imperfections in us, we’re gonna be ok – so let’s not dwell. If we dwell on them and start to feel bad or hopeless, that is when we start to lose more than just our self-confidence. We lose self consciousness. And then we start to lose our way of living.

In my experience this is when people go too deep into the abyss.

You are going to face many things in life. Some of those things are going to be life threatening at some point. No matter what happens, you are never going to be able to escape the consequences of the choices you make. So when you make a mistake you don’t blame God or go around feeling like a victim. You blame yourself, and you learn from your mistake, and you move on, and you try not to make the same mistake again. You don’t blame God, or think you’re somehow special because you somehow got through this situation. This is important since people often make the “God was on my side” story. These stories give us the belief that we are somehow special and we will get through any challenge we face, when in reality there is nothing special about us. We make mistakes, and just like everyone else, we can make terrible mistakes.

In my experience this is when people go too deep into the abyss. They give up on the things that matter most in life and instead spend their time on things that won’t last.

Let Me Give You Some Insight Into How I Look At Things

I used to think that if we didn’t make mistakes we could never go wrong. Now I believe that this notion is a lie created by the Devil. The only way that you are going to get out in life is by learning how to accept what you have, learn how to love yourself, and when you love yourself, love your imperfections. And then you can always love God, God, God and all the other imperfections of the world, because after all God is the most perfect.

If we dwell on these things and we make the mistakes we are probably going to have a hard time adjusting to new environments. So please don’t dwell on these things, or let them become a substitute for something that is important to you. Let it take on its own meaning and give you some direction in your life. The more focused you can be on your personal life, the more you can feel satisfied in all that you do. And if you can take some guidance and direction from the imperfections of everyone in the world then you can find inspiration in yourself and then you can live that way as well.

This is just one of the insights I have gathered from the teachings of Sri Chinmoy, and is in no way an exhaustive list of all the teachings. If there are other spiritual books you think I should include in this post, I would be happy to see them in the comments. I will add them to the list of recommendations at the top of the post.

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[1] The book can be downloaded here:  www.srimachinmoyindia.