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How To Make Bad Relationships Good Again: It Starts With Respect

As long as you are doing what’s right, the hard part will come later. If people respect you, you will be in a better situation than ever before.

The old adage goes, “if people respect you, you get your way more often than they do.” A person who is respected is more likely to be satisfied and feel accomplished. Sometimes that isn’t always the case, however. When those who feel respected become resentful, angry and confused, it can bring out the worst in them and make them difficult to trust again. That’s why it’s important to let someone who respects you be respected. And when others don’t respect you … take it as a sign you’re doing something right.

And when you do find a friend you really like (and who is also respectful to you!) it will be far easier to take on challenges, and to do well together!

So next time someone tells you that people’s negative feelings are due to the situation you are in … listen to them. Don’t run from them, because their message will get through, even if their actions don’t.

If you want to improve your dating life, you have to get out of situations that don’t work. It makes sense to take advantage of situations when they are available, but for you to do that you need to be the most confident and competent possible. The key to being able to handle whatever life throws at you is simply going to be getting out of your own way. So you can have the best dating life possible, but if you don’t give up on yourself, you’ll be able to keep your relationships healthy and successful when you inevitably get stuck in situations you might not be able to handle. You will be able to work yourself into a position of strong self-confidence. This will benefit your dating life, because it will make you stronger. And when those positive changes happen, it’s hard to stay in the negative ones!

If you are frustrated or hurt. Don’t be. It’s ok to feel frustrated. Don’t let this frustrate you. Don’t become consumed by your anger. This is where you get yourself stuck. If you let you anger control your dating life, it will be just as hard on you as it is on anyone else. And just like with your relationships, sometimes there is nothing you can do other than get up and move on. For you to continue being yourself is very necessary for you being able to be a reliable and satisfying partner. Your dating life will only truly improve if you can put the positive changes that have occurred into practice. Do you need more confidence? The first step in your dating success is to realize that confidence is not something that can be acquired. It can’t be gained. It can’t be bought; it has to be earned. It’s the product of the right attitude, your willingness to learn and change, and a solid foundation on which to build. So, the first step to learning to give yourself the right opportunity to be confident has to start at home. Find those times when you feel confident.

Sometimes this will happen when you want something, and no others are around. You will have to go out and get that thing yourself, but make sure you do so in a way that leaves you feeling proud, with a strong feeling of self-esteem. No pressure!

It’s easy to feel like all you have going for yourself is your looks, your looks alone. But that’s a false view.

For you to truly succeed in this world, you need to find the time to take the necessary time to learn about yourself and about the world around you! And once you are fully aware of all of the things you can say or do, you’ll feel better about everything that you do.