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When I Started Being A Bad Mom

A lot of people like to ask their mom about her feelings, in particular. You shouldn’t do that. Instead, I will take you on an adventure of a lifetime, and I want you to try to figure out what’s making her mad.

A lot of people ask their dad about how he feels about the things he does, or how he feels about the people he loves, or where he’s at with his life and future. They want to know. You shouldn’t do that. Instead, I will take you on an adventure of a lifetime, and I want you to try to figure out what’s making her mad.

In this experiment, the goal is to understand what your mom is mad at you about in the context of everyday conversations. Do that, and you will have a better understanding of your mom’s thoughts and feelings.

I’m going to talk about your mom’s feelings about your love life. Do that, and you will have a better understanding of your mom’s thoughts and feelings.

In today’s conversation, I’m going to tell you that my mom is mad.

The thing I wanted to explore today is the fact that everyone has a different view on what’s wrong with their own parent. This experiment doesn’t pretend that my mom has perfect love on herself. However, I did want to use “being a good mom,” as one of my objectives, so that I could get her to explain exactly what went wrong with her relationship with her.

The objective of this experiment is to try and figure out what’s going wrong with a relationship because, of course, everyone does it in different ways…

But that is just where I get my own opinions from. How you feel about someone, or your relationship with someone, is your own business.

So, today you’re going to talk with Mom about your love life. I want you to be honest and to be as specific as you can be. You are going to tell her all about it.

Tell me what’s wrong, and please do keep this discussion professional! I understand if your mom is upset that she doesn’t appear to be very happy. I understand if your dad’s not getting enough sleep. I understand if you don’t feel respected as a mother. But please be honest…

You know, after this experiment, we’re going to talk about your feelings on it. You’ll ask me something like “Why?” and I’m sure I can relate. After all, I had the same conversation with you, and I’m still very confused.

Maybe even upset about it. I mean, really I am?

So this experiment is not about the emotions of what your mom is mad at you about. Those are her feelings.

This experiment is about how I feel about it. And it’s not how she feels. Not at all.

Well, I guess that explains a lot!

How I Feel About My Dad’s Love Life

Being honest is one thing. But there’s another part. And that’s how I feel about my dad’s love life.

Let’s start by talking about me.

I was raised as an only child. Now, I have two step-siblings who I love, and a third brother whose mother was in the same situation as mine.

While I feel so lucky to have my family, I still haven’t figured out how to deal with being the only kid and still being cared about.

I know now that I’m still young and growing. But I’m also sure that I’ll eventually grow out of it. It’s just a matter of when. So I think that, in some ways, my love life will also have a way for me to grow out of it; I’m sure of it.