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Why There Are So Few Men Who Are Openly Sexually Attracted To Women

Many people I know think the reason for the lack of sexually attractive men is because the majority of men are afraid to come out of the closet. This is false. You can get sexually aroused at a bar, on the beach, on a date , but the majority of men are simply waiting to meet the right woman. For a woman to be attracted to a man, it’s not about sexual attraction, it’s about chemistry. Chemistry will come out if you’re willing to accept her.

Men are in the minority in their desire for sex. Women, on the other hand, are in the minority in their desire for a committed relationship. The fact that so few people have openly sexual interactions proves to be counter-intuitive. If you think that men might fear coming out of the closet, you might be surprised. In recent years, more people have come out of the closet than at any other time in the history of this planet. Men and women are both changing their sexual identity and desires on a daily basis. This trend is nothing new . In fact, the trend is accelerating and I suspect one day sexual identity and desire will be an unquestioned factor for both men and women throughout the world.

When it comes to choosing a partner, this will be a great way to learn to be more relaxed, more open, and more sexual. How do I know this?

Because I did it too.

Let me show you what I did.

After reading the above “How To Be More Attractive To Women” post, I decided to experiment. I decided to stop being shy and just talk to women in a more sexually-appropriate manner. I also started dating women but on a strictly sexual level. It was great. It was great for my physical well-being, but it wasn’t great for me socially. After six months, I met the love of my life and my life, though we had no sexual relation. After all, I was on a journey to learn how to be more sexual with women that had gotten me nowhere.

I realized that even though I had started out on the wrong foot socially when it came to women, the lesson was to learn from it (i.e. that learning is good). I knew what women wanted, what they would tolerate, and what would not (if it happened at all).

As you’d suspect I learned a few interesting things. Here are the ten things I learned about being more sexually-friendly to women (in no particular order):

1. Be honest: Don’t fool around with girls. Tell the truth. Say “I like to watch soccer.” It’s not just about the sex. Guys who say “I’m good in bed, but the relationship will only last if I do this and do that” will be mistaken for a guy who has a problem. The truth is that sex is optional in relationships for a woman, there’s usually no guarantee that you’ll be a good “foreplay boyfriend” and “foreplay girlfriend,” and I am not in love with “foreplay” with women at all. Most females will say “I’d be all yours if you were more sexual” and then you’ve just been rejected.

2. Don’t go overboard, but go deep enough

Girls are very picky about the types of men they sleep with. Some are attracted to short black guys, some are attracted to tall thin guys and others will not tolerate tall thin guys. It is true that you can get away with a “small dick” at most bars, but there is a big difference between that and “short dick”. Don’t be afraid to experiment, it really is okay. Most men who tell women what they like and don’t like is “cheating”, but if your intentions are genuine, then be honest with women.

Also, be realistic. If she is turned on by a really big dude, then she may not be available. If she only likes short guys, then there is no way she is available.

3. Girls will always want the “nice guy”

Most women will tell you that they do not want a “nice guy”, because women are very picky about men’s personalities, so they don’t find “nice guys” attractive.